It’s not uncommon for couples to undergo some rough patches, and you could be experiencing them right now. If you’ve been caught in the chaos of daily life that you now realise that you’ve already lost that intimacy in your relationship, don’t hit the panic button yet.
The truth is, a lot of couples are in the same situation, and it can be fixed before things get too late. But how exactly can you re-ignite that fire in your relationship? Learn how to communicate better, explore the possibilities inside the bedroom and practice intimacy in your daily life. Let’s break it down:
Learn How to Really Communicate.
Most of us think that we know how to communicate, but in reality, we really don’t. This is why a lack of proper communication is a common reason for fights, misunderstandings and even breakups. But all that can be fixed if you learn how to communicate more efficiently with your partner. Good communication is more than just talking and letting your partner know of your thoughts and feelings. It’s also about listening to him and taking time to understand his thoughts and feelings just as he would do to you. When you practice good communication, intimacy will just come second nature.
Explore the Possibilities of Intimacy Inside the Bedroom.
Contrary to what most people think, intimacy doesn’t come naturally. In fact, it requires a lot of hard work and commitment. So if you feel like you haven’t been intimate enough lately, maybe it’s time to spice things up by trying new things inside the bedroom. If you haven’t embraced vibrators in your relationship yet, it’s time to explore rabbit vibrators at SVAKOM Australia. If you haven’t tried role playing yet, go buy that costume and surprise your partner with a role playing night.
Remember that if you want to improve your intimate life, you need to make an effort for it. You can even add some spicy gifts in the mix to really amp up the excitement for your intimate time together.
Practice Intimacy in Your Daily Life.
Finally, intimacy shouldn’t just be limited inside the bedroom. In fact, the most intimate couples embrace intimacy in their daily life, whether they’re at home, running errands or just hanging out. This doesn’t mean making out everywhere. It means making sure that your partner knows that he is loved and vice versa. You can start by determining your partner’s love language. For instance, if he loves food, then you can cook a hearty breakfast or prepare lunch to take to work. If you both love travelling, make sure to book a vacation at least once a year to a destination that you both love. Sometimes it’s the simple things that you do outside the bedroom that makes things a lot better inside it.
At the end of the day, making your relationship and intimate life work is up to you. So make sure that you follow these tips and include our vibrators in the mix.
Bob Duncan is the lead writer and partner on ConversationsWithBianca.com. A passionate parent, he’s always excited to dive into the conversation about anything from parenting, food & drink, travel, to gifts & more!